God bless!
In life we all have to realize too much of anything is no good. We have to learn to keep a fine balance or we will end up in unhealthy extremes. How do I know? My middle name is Extreme! I'm an all or nothing type of guy (I could lie but why do that?). In life I've devoted all or walked away totally from things and many times in life this proved to be detrimental. So how do we know the right measure of something? We have to be able to have a bit of independence from whatever it is. We shouldn't "die" if we don't have something or someone. The only full dependence we should have is to God. Other than that live your life healthy and always maintain options (I'm not talking about options out of marriage or anything righteous) as you never know what tomorrow will bring.
Pastor Joell A. Perez